and-i-cant-resurrect-you said:Vewy pwetty Lucy <3 =^.^= meow have a kitty for good work!

Thank you! I will cherish the kitty <3 ^-^

shallow-between-stars said:Something complementary like a navy blue.

defira85 said: Maybe a deep purple?

Okay I will try dark blue or purple. Thanks for your inputs! : )

wardenblues said: people’s objections to ‘ladyboner’ have been brought up in other posts so contrary to anon’s belief, it’s not just a one time thing

Oh here we go. It was not just non. Other people find that to be an offensive word, and that definitely amounts to a trend that says that that word is offensive to more than one person! Ignoring completely for a second that a person’s rights are made no less important if they are the only one who stands up for those rights 
Thanks Tanya. 

Also thanks Kirsty and Wendy for your support and kind words. 

They used slurs, and they complained that other people’s comfort and personal safety was less important than their ability to use offensive words. And they threatened to remove their support- ugh I’m sorry, you’re so patient and supportive and I’m not

Oh see, you are much cleverer than me. I was not very comfortable with a lot of the words they used or the way they phrased things, but I couldn’t think of a way to state exactly why! That is exactly why! There look you are in my brain. 
Thanks Defira! You shouldn’t even begin to think you are not the most supportive because you are!

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defira85 said: Oh my god nonny get out you gross human being

*GLOMPS YOU*
Oh but Defira, if they stay to listen then they might learn some things (hopefully only good things), so I think I shall keep them and hope that they respect me and my followers enough to take a step back and see that the slippery slope argument thing is a logical fallacy. 

defira85 said: Um yes I have a mighty need for anything with more Justice in it

I wish that I lived in a world where I could just be a fanfiction/fanart mule for you and just supply you with endless streams of Justice fiction and also all those other dudes and ladies that you love. But mostly Justice because I really love Justice, and I love trying to understand him.
Also, I blame you entirely for that. 

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AAAAAAAHHHHHHHH SO I INTRODUCED MY FRIEND TO DA2 AND HE IS PLAYING IT AND AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I’M GOING TO BE ABLE TO GUIDE HIM THROUGH THE MORAL AND ETHICAL DILEMMAS!!! And even though he is a straight, white, male gamer, I am pretty confident that he will do really well with it. I AM SO EXCITED!

Also I have a mighty need to write more Justice/Anders interactions from Awakening times. Little things, just, the development of friendship and understanding between them. Like this fic that I wrote for my favourite Defira one time. I have a really soft spot for this drabble, even though it has its flaws. I think its very pure, for something that I wrote. 

IT’S NOT A PROBLEM YOU’RE PERFECT um there’s those placards that get reblogged from time to time that are like business cards and they sum it up super quick but of course I can’t find it…

YES PERFECT!!! I’LL TAKE TEN!
NO YOU ARE PERFECT!!

normanee said: It is absolutely presh! I love it bb! <3


browncoatfromtheshire said: If you delete this gorgeous picture I will be sad :( cutie patootie

zeph0r said: brammmm you are gorgeoussssss

defira85 said: YOU ARE THE CUTE

ouyangdan said: I WOULD NEVER MAKE FUN IT’S TOO PRESH

Wow are you guys a crazy self-esteem injection! Oh my goodness gracious. 
Ugh. Why can’t I meet you face to face and have coffee and churros. 
If you want to come to Brisbane there are maltesers and redskins here which I will save for you I promise. 
Also I am going to make licorice all-sorts slice but I don’t like licorice so apparently I need a taste-tester?

defira85 said: Maybe drink some cool (not cold) water and just rest for a moment? Meditate?

Hugs you again. Thank you for the help. I think I would love to have a nice nap. But I don’t want to walk back to my car and go home because I know I won’t get the assignment done and it needs to be finished today because I know I won’t get any downtime on my shift this week. 
I suspect that this is probably just some shark week bullshit. Best to power through. 

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helila said: I didn’t get your message :(

Oh well, the only thing it said was: “NO YOU’RE AMAZING!! <3<3<3”

defira85 said: No no I got it! Your reply to my message? I got it :D

Well, one out of two ain’t terrible. Oh good. Well I haven’t received a reply to that reply today just in case you sent one. 
Ugh, Tumblr ~__~